Becoming part of the solution

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It is clear that discussions surrounding privilege have become increasingly prevalent. As a white, heterosexual, northern european male, I have come to recognise the inherent advantages and privileges that my identity and background afford me. But, rather than feeling guilt or shame, I have chosen to embrace this awareness as an opportunity for personal growth and to contribute positively to the world around me. In this essay, I will explore how acknowledging privilege, irrespective of gender, race, creed or colour , can foster empathy and encourage individuals to leverage their advantages for the betterment of society.

If you find yourself concerned with the real or perceived influence of others, it’s essential to make sure that this concern does not negatively impact your decision-making. For instance, if you believe that someone else’s privilege is granting them undue influence or opportunities, it’s important not to let this belief drive you into inaction or resentment. Instead, consider how you can take control of your own actions and choices. For example, in a competitive academic or professional setting, rather than being demotivated by the advantages others might seem to have, you can focus on what you can control—your work ethic, your learning, and your unique contributions. By not allowing the fear of inequality to influence your decisions, you keep your agency and continue to act in ways that reflect your values and aspirations. This proactive approach not only helps you navigate perceived inequities but also encourages a mindset of resilience and personal responsibility, empowering you to thrive regardless of the challenges posed by others’ advantages.

My privileged position was not earned, but rather inherited by circumstances beyond my control. It is crucial to understand that privilege is not something individuals choose or directly control. Apart from the ‘lottery of our birth’ it is a consequence of historical, social, and systemic factors that have shaped our world. It is essential to distinguish this acknowledgment from feelings of guilt or shame, as these emotions hinder progress and can deter productive conversations.

Understanding privilege entails recognising the advantages it brings. My background provided me with a solid foundation in life, access to quality education, and ample opportunities for personal and professional growth. These attributes, although not consciously sought, have undeniably opened doors and facilitated my journey through life, albeit with sweat and toll along the way. Gratitude for these advantages does not diminish the achievements and struggles of others; instead, it cultivates a sense of appreciation and awareness of the disparities that exist.

Acknowledging privilege is the first step towards building a more just and fair society. Being able to tick many of the ‘best boxes,’ I have come to appreciate the advantages bestowed upon me by circumstance. Rejecting guilt or shame, I have instead chosen to channel this awareness into empathy and social responsibility. The term “white privilege” should not be seen as a dirty word but as an opportunity for growth and understanding. Additionally, it’s crucial to recognize that concerns about the real or perceived influence of others should not dictate our actions or deter us from making decisions based on fairness and integrity. By focusing on what we can control—our own behavior, contributions, and the way we use our privilege—we can avoid being paralyzed by fear or resentment. Instead, we can use our advantages for the greater good, contributing to positive social change and creating a more inclusive world for all.

Written by Stephen Griffin and ChatGPT