Becoming part of the solution

Human behaviour is often driven by the pursuit of positive outcomes and rewards. We naturally gravitate towards actions that bring us pleasure and success while avoiding those that result in pain or failure. However, a dangerous cycle can emerge when negative actions, whether undertaken consciously or unconsciously, yield positive results, leading individuals to believe that their actions are not, in fact, negative. This essay delves into the inherent risks associated with this deceptive cycle, where the initial allure of success from negative actions can foster a perilous pattern of behaviour. As individuals continue to repeat these actions, they may find themselves blindsided by dire repercussions that were unforeseen and devastating.

At the core of this issue is the temptation of immediate rewards. When negative actions lead to positive outcomes, it can be alluring and seductive. It appears as a shortcut to success, a means to bypass societal norms and ethical boundaries. These actions can manifest in various aspects of life, from personal relationships to professional endeavors and even in an individual’s moral compass.

For instance, in a corporate setting, a person may consciously or unconsciously engage in unethical practices to secure a promotion or a lucrative deal. If these actions result in short-term success, such as financial gains or career advancement, the individual may begin to rationalise and normalise these behaviours. Gradually, the perception of these actions as “not so negative” takes root, regardless of whether they were consciously or unconsciously chosen as negative.

As individuals continue to engage in these negative actions with positive outcomes, a hazardous cycle forms. The rewards serve to validate the belief that their actions are justified, and they become increasingly desensitised to the moral or ethical implications of their behaviour. This cycle bears resemblance to addiction, where the pursuit of positive outcomes overshadows concerns about negative consequences.

Over time, individuals may become blind to the potential harm they are causing to themselves and others. The reinforcement of this behaviour can lead to a distorted sense of reality, where they genuinely believe that their actions are not detrimental, consciously or unconsciously.

The most treacherous aspect of this cycle is that it often culminates in a tipping point. At this juncture, the positive outcomes either cease to materialise, or the negative consequences escalate to a catastrophic level. Individuals, now deeply entrenched in their belief that their actions are not negative, may persist in their behaviour even when it becomes blatantly destructive. In the corporate example, the employee who manipulated their way to success may eventually face exposure, legal consequences, and damaged relationships.

In a personal scenario, imagine a married individual who engages in infidelity, deceiving their spouse by seeking emotional or physical fulfilment outside the marriage. Initially, they may rationalise their actions, finding excitement or validation in the affair while managing to keep it hidden. The positive outcomes of the infidelity reinforce their belief that their actions are justified, leading to a dangerous cycle where they become desensitised to the moral and emotional implications. However, despite the temporary rewards, the affair eventually comes to light, leading to profound pain and betrayal for both their spouse and themselves.

The awakening to the fact that their actions, whether conscious or unconscious, have dire repercussions can be a painful and abrupt realisation. It shatters the illusion that they were not engaged in negative behaviour all along. The dangers of engaging in negative actions with positive outcomes are abundantly clear. The initial allure of success can lure individuals down a treacherous path, blinding them to the ethical, moral, and societal implications of their actions, whether conscious or unconscious. As the cycle persists, the risk of catastrophic consequences looms large, impacting personal reputation and causing profound societal consequences, and by the time reality sets in, it may be too late to undo the damage.

Wriiten by Stephen Griffin & ChatGPT